Saturday, November 05, 2005

Time SLOWLY Moves by......

Why is it that Everyone says that their second pregnancy goes So much faster than the first?? I am not finding that At All!!!! Its moving Just as slow as my first one and as much as I Love my babies I am NOT A FAN the 9 month process that brings them here. I AM MISERABLE! Sorry to whine but I am going to go Crazy!!!! I have 6 more weeks and though that may sound like no time to some........Trust me......Its a LONG time!!!!! I cant do anything comfortably, Walk, sit, sleep...I'm hormonal and have no patience for anything. 6 more weeks of this....You've gotta be kidding me!!!!!! Am I the only person who feels this way during pregnancy. Everyone I seem to talk to you just Loves it and has never felt better!!! Hows that??? Well, let me make a public apology to anyone that I come into contact with in the next 6 weeks....LOL........ I'm a little cranky! :) All that said I cant wait to meet this new little one, and I am Very grateful for my children and wouldn't trade them for the world. I just needed to vent a bit!

19 comments:

Liz said...

Vent away Sara! That is what your blog is for! Besides, who am I to comment on pregnancy? I am the least qualified in our little group to comment except maybe my husband! Hope it goes very quickly for you! I cannot wait to meet your new little guy! I believe his name will be something like Geraldo Gerold according to your husband!

Elizabeth F. said...

WEll, you need to change your perspective (as hard as that may be)!! You need to spend the next 6 weeks like they are your last 6 weeks of freedom!! That's what I did and it really helped. Keep your calendar busy of fun stuff that you won't be able to do once the baby gets here. Go on dates with your hubby...yeh right! Have sex (if possible), go to the movies, sleep as much as possible, anything that you think that you won't be able to do...do it!! and be thankful that you still have a little time. The last advice I have is to go get a Chiropractic adjustment and a 90 minute massage. I really felt better after mine. It is expensive, but will help with the pain!!! The massage was a miracle worker for my back. I know first-hand the misery of the back, pelvis, hip pain problems!! Good Luck!

Elizabeth F. said...

by the way, anytime you're in pain time moves slowly...keep yourself occupied so that you're not staring at the calendar! I'll help...just call me and we'll go do something.

Sarafu said...

You have to have th etime to be able to do stuff and with as much as I have been working mixed with being a mom and taking care of a household doesnt leave time for much else. I Know that I will have less time once the baby is born but right now I am just venting, well, because I can and it seems to help alot! :)

Sarafu said...

Yes Liz, you figured it out!! We were trying to keep the babys name a secret but you got it!! LOL!

leviathen said...

i felt the same way when i was pregnant.

and the baby's name should be gemeni fruitbat fuson.

l.

Tammy said...

I am sorry you are miserable during these last weeks....and I understand. I had very easy pregnancies and deliveries but that is one thing I would agree with you on. The last weeks were physically horrible......I will be praying for you. And I will also being praying for the little one, that God will speak to you and change the name that you and Daniel or Levi has picked out for him!!

Daniel said...

Levi, we'll consider that name, but the last name will be VanderWoude. I do like fruitbat though.

Elizabeth F. said...

I feel like a dork that I gave the advice to change your perspective! I totally empathize with you,and pray that things will get better and time will move by more quickly for you! I was just trying to tell you what worked for me-- You have every right to vent and none of us will think badly of you for it!

Sarafu said...

Dont feel liek a dork, I know that you were just being helpfull. After all you were in my shoes just a few months ago!

leviathen said...

come one elizabeth. ou rthe king of la leche! (or queen as it were) your suppose to give advice. :)

and daniel sorry, to true, i don't know why i have problems with that. jeez. gemeni fruitbat Vanderwoude. mmmm. has a nice ring don' you think?
I like it.

l.

Annette said...

because your sister is the only who changed her name...that's why you always say Fuson. I would go with the fruitbat myself. Come on...Uncle Levi named him :)

Sarafu said...

Fruitbat is nice.....I kinda liked the Fuson on the end but thats just me.......something tells me Daniel wouldnt go for that though! :)

chie said...

You guys are hilarious!!!

I would go for more of Elizabeth's advise. More Sex is always a GOOD THING!!! ;)

Sarafu said...

I'm all for that!

Annette said...

apparently Sara took Elizabeth's advice a little too seriously..where's the bloggin Fu?

birdietwoshoes said...

I have to laugh at your string of comments... Funny. So my friend's first pregnancy was miserable. Morning sickness the first trimester, then felt like crap for the rest of her pregnancy. Now you say your 2nd is horrible. I say, GREAT! Makes me really excited to be pregnant. :) Anyway, I hope you are feeling better and good luck with the rest of your time. When are you due, anyway?

PS Didn't Alias kick butt last week?!?!

Sarafu said...

Dont Worry Birdie, I know LOTS of people who claim that they have Never felt better in their life than when they were pregnant. I just happened to Not be one of those people. Dont Worry, God gives us the grace to handle it, but like I said, it helps for me to whine sometimes! Ask my brothers, they put up with it for a LONG time! At least they dont have to hear the squeely voice when its written on a blog! :) Netta, I am sure that you remember that too! :) Oh and ALIAS did kick butt!!!! I cant wait till next week! I'm sure its a dream but it will be nice to see Vaughn, Plus we get to see Rachel kick some GOrdon Dean butt!!

Rachelle said...

No Sara, I felt absolutely horrible my whole pregnancy with Bella and great with Lacey until the end. I had Pre-eclampcia (sp?)with both children and very swollen. I was miserable almost the whole time w/ Bella so I agree, don't feel bad! And look at my girls now, Its all worth it in the end but I feel ya sister!!